The Right Thing !

I wonder how wonderful it will be to be able to say and do the right thing all the time :) but it doesn't happen like that and definitely not in my life....Oh how i get to be in the tight corners and utter the wrong thing which people don't want to hear...phew it is tough pleasing people, not that i try very hard :P but but but is there a way you can say or do the right thing most of the time? i am not being too ambitious in trying to find a way of doing it all the time but yeah sometimes would be nice... for both me and the other party :D lol like just this other night i went to a makeover party, yeah trying to look a little better, well didn't work for me :P and i ended up telling the director that her products didn't work "wonders" for me as they advertise and to be honest i was telling the truth but i now realise that she must have felt bad, well good for her :P she still has some feelings left!!! but yeah back to the main point - how and where do people learn to say and do the right thing all the time and if not all the time then some of the time...why can't i get that, where do i learn that? yeah i know silence is golden and all but what do u do when u are obliged to say something and what you want to say is not pretty...Life is short and living it the way you want to has a costly price tag...but as in earlier posts no regrets!!!never-ever....well i think this needs some serious thinking....so lets do that and find out all about "The Right Thing"